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Dur ke Uncle: Rishta Baat
Beta, teri mummy se baat hui. Hum soch rahe hain ki humari beti Niharika ke liye tujhse behtar ladka nahi milega. Kya khyal hai? π
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Arre uncle, yeh toh badi baat hai! Thanks itna acha sochne ke liye. Niharika ke baare mein thodi detail bataiye na. π
AnTkGuRu
Uncle Thanks itna acha sochne ke liye +
Niharika badi sanskaari hai, MBA kiya hai, ghar bhi sambhalti hai. Tum dono ki jodi perfect hogi! π
Sounds good, uncle. Kya hum dono thodi baat kar sakte hain pehle? Aur aapki koi expectations hain rishte ke liye? π
AnTkGuRu
Bilkul, baat karo. Bas hum chahte hain ki Niharika ke liye acha ghar ho, thodi si financial security bhi. Tum toh ache job mein ho na? π
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Haan uncle, job theek hai. Financial security se aapka kya matlab hai? Thoda clear boliye na. π
AnTkGuRu
Arre, bas yeh ki shaadi mein thodi help chahiye hogi. Jaise, Niharika ke future ke liye thodi si amount ya ghar ka kharcha. Normal baat hai! π
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Uncle, kya yeh dowry ki baat ho rahi hai? Main iske against hoon. Hum openly baat kar sakte hain kya? π
AnTkGuRu
Note: Shaadi ke proposals mein kabhi kabhi log pyar aur rishte ki baat karte hain, par asal mein financial gain chahiye hota hai. uncle yahaan bade pyar se baat kar rahe hain, par unki niyat thodi shak ke dayre mein hai. Aise rishton mein pehle saari expectations clear karo.
Ek aur tareeka: Directly pooch lo, βUncle, aap exact kya expect kar rahe hain? Koi specific demand hai kya?β
Beta, dowry nahi, bas thodi help ki baat hai. Tum toh itne ache ghar se ho, thoda toh banta hai na? π
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Uncle, mujhe ek relative ne bataya ki aapne kaha ki meri family ko βbada contributionβ karna hoga. Yeh kya baat hai? π£
AnTkGuRu
Uncle Yeh kya baat hai? +
Arre, yeh toh galat baat kisi ne boli! Main toh bas bol raha tha ki Niharika ke liye acha future chahiye. Tum galat samajh rahe ho! π
Sorry uncle, par yeh sab thoda uncomfortable lag raha hai. Main aise rishte ke liye ready nahi hoon. π
AnTkGuRu
Theek hai beta, tujhe jo sahi lage. Par aisa mauka baar baar nahi aata. π€
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Thanks uncle, par main apne principles pe hi rahunga. Aage baat nahi kar sakta ispe. π
AnTkGuRu
FAQ: Shaadi ke rishton mein aise demands kyun aati hain?
- Kuch families rishte ko business deal ki tarah dekhti hain.
- Asliyat tab dikhti hai jab wo openly ya indirectly paison ki baat karte hain.
Kya yahaan rishta reject karna sahi tha?
- Haan, apne values pe khada rehna sahi tha.
Tum aise situation mein kya karte?
Pro Tip: Rishte ke liye pehle dono families ke expectations openly discuss karo, aur koi financial demand ho toh clear no bolo.